*Wild at heart*

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Hey everyone! Im on a roll with the blog posts this month. Phew! Im pretty proud of myself to be honest. I had been slacking some kind of hardcore lol. I have been looking for something to pair this top up with for awhile and tonight I came across this very boho chic skirt from the HeatWave Gatcha Event. I love how the skirt looks like its been torn a little on the bottom with little fringes in different places. So cute! I thought this top from Cynful went perfect with it too. Gosh.. how comfy does this skirt look though?! I wish I had one like it in real life tbh lol. You still have a little more time to visit the HeatWave event if you havent yet. So please get to scootin and head on over there before all these goodies are gone. All Gatcha machines are 100L or less a play. Hope everyone is having a wonderful hump day ♥

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Top: [Cynful] Clothing & Co. “Baubie Hugger” (Black Lace)
Skirt: *CD* “Shabby Boho Skirt” (Violet RARE) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha
Shoes: *REIGN. “Wedge Flip Flops” (Black)
Hair: little bones. “Pavillion”
Nails: C H A R Y “Glossy Nails” (for Slink Hands)
Necklace: Cae “Bolt” {NEW!} @ Collabor88
Rings: [7891.] “Poly Rings” (Silver) -found on MP-

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*Charming..*

Im taking a different approach with my blog post this time. Ive written some things below but Ive also recorded them in my own voice so you can hit [play] and listen along as you read it with me. It different and I kinda hope everyone likes it. :)

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charm·ing

ˈCHärmiNG

adjective: charming

pleasant or attractive.

“a charming country cottage”

synonyms:  delightful, pleasing, pleasant, agreeable, likable, endearing, lovely, lovable, adorable, appealing, attractive, good-looking, prepossessing; More

antonyms:   repulsive

(of a person or manner) polite, friendly, and likable.

“he was a charming, affectionate colleague”

Hello Everyone

Why charming.. Why did I name this blog post Charming? Why did I find the real definition of Charming to start this blog post off? Well.. that’s because I think charming can be way more than just whats said above.. and Ill tell you why.

Of everything that goes on in my life from my anxiety to my spazz moments, to just dealing with everyday life why charming? Why did I pick that word to talk to you about today? Why do I insist on wearing cute dresses? Why do I insist on keeping my blog going? Why do I insist on signing into Second Life just to play dress up for a couple hours, get lost in the moment, snap a couple pictures and upload them to a blog for everyone to see? Why do I continue to do these things almost two years after starting it? Most people would have gotten bored with it when they don’t see they have a ton of views, or maybe sometimes they become overwhelmed with everything and give up.

There are so many things that aren’t good in this world. That aren’t good in my life and I try, I try as hard as I can to be positive about everything. But sometimes its the little things.. and that’s what charming is to me. Its those little things that makes life just a little bit better. Its making my avatar look pretty when I’m having a horrible day, just because. Its visiting that random sim and walking through exploring all the little details someone took the time to make, just because. This is my charming Second Life and if I can do something small to make myself happy then I’m going to do it. There’s no real point to wallow in whatever it is I’m going through or what the world is going through. I cant change the world, I cant change people, but I can change how I react to things. And that’s why I have this blog, that is why I do what I do. Its not to present some facade of a beautiful Second and real life, because what you cant see behind the other side of these pictures is me interacting with my real life, my dirty car that needs washed, my pile of makeup that I need to rearrange, my dirty clothes I need to wash, my amazing collection of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia, my countless bottles of medicine I need to help my body keep functioning recently. You also dont see how much of my Second Life is a mess with countless boxes everywhere scattered throughout the place or how I have a cute little house set up which I change on a normal basis because im a hoarder of SL houses. What you do see though is from time to time me looking very well put together and lady like (sometimes not so lady like) on my blog post because those things make me feel good. Sharing what I find beautiful in Second Life and hoping you see some beauty in it too. Thats something thats important to me. Blogging isnt a job to me like it is to a lot of people. I blog because thats something I love. I started before the big ‘blogging craze’ started and I didnt start for free clothing. In the beginning I worked my ass off at clubs making tips so I could pay for nice things to blog for everyone. I finally got enough views and applied for enough feeds that someone took a chance on me to blog their clothing. I think that when you struggle, and it doesn’t matter real life or second life.. be it anxiety, depression, loneliness, or any other type of illness.. you need to find those things that bring even just the smallest amount of happiness to your life. Thats why in real life I never leave the house without my makeup, and I do all these blogs in second life because those things make me happy, those things make me feel good. You dont see me in real life wearing my sweats and hair in a messy bun most of the time.. so when I get a chance to play dress up in second life and wear a cute dress and heels.. Im going to take it. Theres so much that goes on in peoples worlds behind the scenes and thats just how it is for everybody. To me.. charming isnt perfection. Its absolutely not perfect in any sense of the word. Its the little things that I do to make myself happy.. to make others happy.. to make the world maybe just a little bit more beautiful. The world is a big scary place and to a lot of people this may just seem petty, but I cant change the world I can just change myself. So to me.. thats what charming is. Its dressing up in Second Life to explore alone, its those countless hours playing Cards against Humanity or Greedy with the ones you care about the most, its getting dressed up to have fun with friends, its taking those numerous amount of photos trying to find the right angle and wind light,  its that lipstick I bought in RL that was way too expensive but makes me feel beautiful when I have it on. Its that child I give extra suckers to at work and they smile back at me so excited, its helping one another, its being a good friend.. and doing a little impulse shopping in RL and SL once in awhile. And Im not going to be ashamed of it and Im not going to be sorry for anything that I do, but all I can say is charming is whatever you need to do in your life to make you feel good, to make your world a little bit more beautiful.. to make you feel happy. My life for sure is FAR from perfect, but.. at least.. at least Im trying. :)

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*Get the Look*

Outfit: Devilish Designs “Shy One” (Pink Flowers) {NEW} @ HeatWave Gatcha 
Hair: [Mag] “Rough”

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One less problem without you.

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Hey yall! Im my last two blog posts Ive been blonde. Which is weird for me but for some reason Im starting to like it. Maybe because its Summer and when I think of Summer I think of lighter colored hair lol. I used to be a blonde in Second Life years ago, but I after things ended with my ex at the time (Of one year) i needed a change and my hair color was it. Funny seeing myself as a blonde again in these posts because it takes me back to those times with him. -gags- lmfao. Anywho.. im bringing to you today another outfit from HeatWave. I love turquoise and brown used together. I think the combinations go so lovely with each other. Seeing this swimsuit I knew it was the one I wanted to blog. This also comes with the hat and a towel you can use over the shoulder as an option too. So lovely. The hair is from Spellbound and while trying on the Demo I fell in love with it. Pretty sure if you see me in SL anytime soon youll see me rocking this lol. I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend. Dont forget to go check out the heatwave gatcha event while you still can. You got a couple more weeks to go before its gone and there is so many amazing designers and things to get.

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Bathing Suit: Ryba Design “Mesh Swimsuit Nr 3″ (RARE) {NEW} @ HeatWave Gatcha
Hair: +Spellbound+ “Ellie”

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.::Hey Pretty Cowboy Lady::.

Well she walked into the joint..
Lookin’ like a million dollars..
From the brim of a Stetson hat..
To the heels of her Tony Llamas..
She said hey Mr. tall dark and handsome cowboy man..
Would you like to dance with me..

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Hello Everyone!

Today Im back once again with some new stuff that featured at the HeatWave Gatha Event. This dress is one of the many you can snag from my lovely friend Dev Damones store. I instantly fell in love with the lace and it took me awhile to find some inspiration for this post. Tonight while doing some writing for another post and listening to music.. this look just hit me. Normally you would dress this up in heels and a cute clutch, but I wanted something different. Every guy loves a classy looking cowboy lady right? :) I hope everyone is doing wonderful and youre having a great week. The weekend is right around the corner so hang in there. Its almost here :)

And as always.. until next time

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Dress: Devilish Designs “Allyson Dress” (Tan lace) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha
Hair: Truth Hair “Jill”
Boots: Miel “Dandy Boots”
Necklace: EarthStones “Simply Put Jewelry Set” (Labradorite)
Bracelet: Reign “Boho Watch” (Teal)

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I never really cared until I met you♥

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Hey Yall! Im back again with a post thats full of new goodies from all over. I got some stuff from the HeatWave Gatcha Event going on, The Big Show, Chapter Four, N21, and not to mention this super cute dress thats new from Cynful Clothing. Very cute for a night out with your love. Unless youre like me and just get dressed, look at myself in the mirror in the bathroom and wish I had somewhere to go lol. This dress comes with a HUD so that you can change the belt to all kinds of options, and the purse comes so you can wear it on your arm or hold it in your hand. Super cute and I hope yall enjoy! DONT FORGET the HeatWave event starts tomorrow so be sure to click the links below and get your gatcha on. I know so many of you love them.

As always.. until next time…

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Dress: [Cynful] Clothing & Co. “Society Dress” (Grey) {NEW!}

Hair: Little Bones “Water Me” {NEW!} @ N°21

Headpiece: U.S “Ferronnier” (Black/Pearl) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Event

Purse: {Mango Cheeks} “Lockhart Purse” (Pearl) {NEW!} @ N°21

Heels: REIGN. “Scandal Pumps” (White) {NEW!} @ The Big Show

Necklace: Soothe. “Stone bijou Necklace” {NEW!} @ Chapter Four

Nails: ::Toxxic:: Pandora “Aloha Gatcha Nails #3″ {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha

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*You only live…*

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Yayyy!! I hope everyone is doing fucking fabulous! Im so excited about bringing to you my first post for the Heat Wave Gatcha Event. This event is going on from August 10th through the 30th. So you have a couple days to save up some money before you head on over. This event has all its gatcha machines 100L$ and less. So its very affordable for everyone to try their luck at trying to get something rare from the machines. Browsing all the goodies I have to bring to you over the next few weeks I was just drawn to this dress. I absolutely LOVEEEE the colors. Its so vibrant and pretty. It also comes with these cute sunglasses that fit right on your shirt. Perfect for a day out on the beach just lounging or even lounging at home with some friends. My eyes were next brought to the mouth pick from twenty13. I thought it matched perfectly and knew I had to use it in this post. The mouth pick has a TON of different options to get from the Gatcha machine so try and snag them all. The one in this photo is a common so go get it! The nails are also a item at Heat Wave too. Im so addicted to different nail polishes for my slink feet. Im sure I have a ton and the one im wearing from Toxxic is just gorgeous! The detail is amazing and a must have for every girl. It also comes in a variety of different shades to get so once again try and grab them all. :) Be on the lookout for my other blog posts featuring new items from the Heat Wave Event. I have a ton of great things to share with yall. Im so excited!!

As always.. until next time

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Dress: Ryba Design “Beachtunic” (RARE) {NEW!} @ Heat Wave Gatcha

Shoes: REIGN. “Hermosa Wedges” (White)

Hair: MOON{Hair} Buoyant {NEW} @ 21

Pick: .t13. “Mouth Pick” (Pulau) {NEW!} @ Heat Wave Gatcha

Nails: ::Toxxic:: Pandora “Aloha Gatcha Nail2″ {NEW!} @ Heat Wave Gatcha

 

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.x. Stripper Diaries .x.

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Hey yall! Well.. surprise! My new facebook got deleted AGAIN. Wtf? I have no idea. Im over it lol. Any who Im back to show yall some new cuteeeee tops from Pink Sugah. I love the lace detail in the front of these. You can get two different colors in a pack too. Right now until Monday the 4th of August you can get these tops at Cleavage. Its located outside the PS store and price is L$50 for a twin pack and L$99 for the fatpack for the duration of the event. Go go now! Its superrrr cuteeee! ♥

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Top: .::Pink Sugah::. “Runaway” (Pink & Blue pack) {NEW!}
Panties: *HolliPocket* “Tease Me Panties”
Heels: BabyDoll. “Stripper Heels” (Zebra) {NEW!}
Stockings: BabyDoll. “Ripped Stockings” (White)
Hair: little bones. “StrangeLove”