(( Are you a Dime Piece? ))

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Hey Yall! Im currently at RL work right now and instead of working around here I decided I should blog instead lol. Ive had these blog picture taken for a while now and just never seemed to find the time to upload it to my page. Here it is though and sometimes I think its good when youre at work to kind of take a moment to break away from it and put your mind on something else so that when you go back to thinking about RL work it doesnt make you and frazzled lol. I realized the other day I havent blogged all month. Maybe its because I did so much last month? Im not sure, but I dont think thats it. To be honest I havent been in Second Life as much it seems this month. I met a boy (insert big cheesy grin) and weve went on a few dates but nothing too serious. Hes very sweet and for now I know I enjoy his company when we get the change to see each other. He works very crazy hours in real life and has been sick recently so that has left us little to no time alone but we do keep in touch via facebook so thats always good. Nothing too serious right now but it is nice to meet someone no one else knows. You kinda get to know them from the ground up without anyone chirping in your ear telling you about something they did last month, who theyve dated in the past, who he was hanging out with last night. Its kinda refreshing, especially in Second Life because it seems everyone knows everyone now and you cant just meet someone new and get to know them yourself and make your own judgments. I think thats a lot of the problem with Second Life relationships. You always have someone who knows something about whoever youre talking to and they just HAVE that NEED to tell you everything they know about them. I cant stand those people. The ones you havent talked to in so long and are really just an acquaintance yet they need to come into your life when they find something is different or they need to know the latest gossip therefore they try and get it by spilling the beans about whatever else they find the need to say. Normally what they have to say is never good and automatically puts doubt into your head. Why do those ppl find a need to do those things? Misery just LOVES company and more than likely they are jealous of your happiness. ANYWAYS I totally got off on a tangent there huh? lol Lets get back to the outfit…

Im totally in love with these new Dime Piece Sweatsuits from Cynful. You can pick them up at The Swag Fest and believe me I think they are worth every penny. It comes with a customize HUD so you can change the color of the drawstring, the draw string holes, and you can even have it say something on your booty if you wish. The jacket also comes with a HUD so you can customize the back if you want it to have a design. Theres a few designs to choose from for both the pants and the jacket. Also of course it comes in a few colors to choose from. Here I have on the brown, but I also love the white and the coral color. I had the hardest time choosing which one to blog. I was going to go with coral but I had seen a lot of others blogged that color so I went with the brown instead. This is something I would def wear in rl and I love how it looks so comfy. The hair is by Soonsiki and if you have her added as a friend on Facebook you were anticipating this hair as much as I was. She would upload teasers every few days showing us how it was coming along and I was so excited I could pee my pants. Ive always wanted a good, long, detailed dread hair in SL. Ive found some in the past but the details on this is just flawless. If I could wear this hair all the time I would. Its also available at The Swag Fest and I also believe this is worth your every penny. Reloaded now has a few nail HUDS out for slink hands and feet. This is just one of the options you can choose from. Ill be blogging more of these later but I thought the glitter one went well with this look. Ive included a photo of the HUD for you to see as well. Im a huge lover of Slink Hands & Feet polish. Im sure I have a thousand of them in my inventory. A girl can never change her nail color enough eh?  The tattoo I have on was from one of the rounds at Fi*Friday. Its an owl so of course this was a no brainer for me to run and pick up. I was actually cam shopping before it opened so I could grab this sooner rather than later lol. Heres my thoughts on cam shopping while the sim has its ban lines up. If they didnt want us to cam shop.. they would close the sim down completely lol. I love the detail on this tattoo and I know you can only see the owl in this look but it also has these gorgeous flowers that go down your arm and around on your belly. Ugh dlksfjl;ajsdf;ja fd was totally worth the money. LOVE LOVE LOVE this tattoo. But hey.. thats kinda a given because its an owl. :)

Phew! I typed a freaking book for yall. Im sure not everyone read it lol but if you did Thank you. Thank you for continuing to support me, my blog, and thank you to my designers for allowing me to blog for your stores. It truly means the world to me. :) I hope everyone is having a fabulous Sunday. Todays my friday basically at work so Im off for the next two days. \O/

and as always.. until next time…


[[Get the look]]

Outfit: [Cynful] “Dime Piece Sweatpants & Sweatshirt” {NEW!} @ Swag Fest
Hair: *Snoonsiki~ “Raindance” {NEW!} @ Swag Fest
Nails: [Reloaded] “Glitter Nails Pastel Pack” {NEW!} (For Slink Hands & Feet)
Tattoo: TattooMania “Flower Owl” {NEW!}

The Fairest of them all.




Hey Yall! This is a new exclusive from Pink Sugah for the Going Bust Event. This event will start on August 28th (today) and run for two weeks. Some rules have changed for this event though so listen closely. The items are no longer located outside the individual stores on the sim. They are all located at a central location. All items are L$100 or less, and this is a discount event for everyone. I love this dress from PS. The little anchors are so cute. Im a huge fan of them and find myself reaching for items with anchors on them in second life. Hurry and run on over to the Going Bust event and check out all the other stores on the sim and pick up some things. I know where Im going today after I get home from work :) Yall have a wonderful thursday!! ♥



Dress: .:Pink Sugah:. “Bombshell” (Black Anchors) {NEW!} @ Going Bust

Hair: .Ploom. “Carrie”

Heels: *REIGN. “Malice Heels”

Necklace: MG “Necklace Pearls” (Black)

*Drunk Lifeguard on Duty*






Ahhhh!! I dont know why I havent blogged these poses sooner. gahh! I LOVE THEM! Anywho.. these are all fabulous poses you can get at the HeatWave Gatcha event from Something New. All these poses and props you see come with the pose. There were two other poses  I didnt post but they are couples poses and I didnt get a chance to do them. SUPER CUTE poses btw.. so you need to hurry over before the 30th and snag them. In the last picture I got drunk on my floatie and lost my top. Tequila really does make her clothes fall off. ;) The bikini comes with the flip flops and another pair of sneakers. They fit Slink feet too. I was sooooo impressed with this outfit because I was just in a rush to find something fast that was along the lines of a lifeguard type thing. Browsing MP I found this. Top and bottoms are both mesh.. extremely well made, comes with a couple props (which arent used in these photos) and two different kinds of shoes. SO SO CUTE and only 199L.


Bikini: Kotora Blue “Little Red Lifeguard FitMesh Bikini”
Hair: Truth Hair “Nissa”
Pose #1: .:Something New:. “Babe Watch Beauty 1″ {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha Event
Pose #2: .:Something New:. “Babe Watch Beauty 2″ (Rare Gatcha) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha Event
Pose #3: .:Something New:. “Handstand 4″ {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha Event
Pose#4: .:Something New:. “Purple Float Couple” (Rare Gatcha) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha Event
Pose #5: .:Something New:. “Orange Float” {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha Event


.x. Bish WHET?! .x.




As a lot of you know my tag in SL is “Bish Whet” and when I seen this shirt in world.. I had to go grab it. Ive had it a few weeks and kept wanting to use it in a post, but couldnt find anything I really liked with it until Reloaded came out with these shorts. They come in a variety of different colors to choose from and they are soooo cute! Now onto the Polaroid which is one of my favorite items from the Heat Wave Gatcha Event going on. You still have a week to go if you havent yet so get to going. This is one of the MANY Polaroids you can get from Twenty13. The one Im showing you is the “Best Bitches” one. They all have different sayings on them and are sooo super cute. Even have cute ones for you people in relationships that want to show your love for your hunny to the world. All you have to do is drop the Polaroid and then drag and drop your favorite photo to it, pick it back up, attach and tadaaaa,.. youre ready to flaunt to the world your best friend, boy friend, girlfriend, whoever your little heart desires. :) I paired this outfit up with some cute shoes from Reign which I believe not much has to be said about Reign because we all know and love that store. Hope everyone is having a fabulous Tuesday and until next time….


Shirt: Just Magnetized “Heathered Sweatshirt” (Bish Whet)
Shorts: [Reloaded] “Demin Shorts” (White) {NEW!}
Hair: Truth Hair “Jenna”
Shoes: *Reign. “Petal Hoppers” (Red)
Polaroid: .t13. “Mesh Mouth Polaroid” (Best Bitches) {NEW!} @ Heat Wave Gatcha




The Pink Sugah PLATINUM VIP GROUP HAS ARRIVED!!! YAYYYY!!!! .::Pink Sugah::. Platinum is the brand new VIP premium group for .::Pink Sugah::. customers. You do have to pay 500L to join but Tara has promised its totally worth it. Im showing you today one of the goodies you get in the Starter pack when you join the group.

Heres all the goodies you get along with this group.
– 25% discount on all full priced mainstore items Excluding Gatchas.
– Exclusive bumper starter pack of exclusives. These are never been seen before items, never sold and never will be sold. Totally exclusive to platinum members. Every Pink Sugah Platinum member will be able to grab this pack from my mainstore. The bumper pack will be updated from time to time, so please be on the look out for that so you can be first to get the new pack!
– Very regular group gifts, same deal as the bumper pack. You won’t be able to buy these items anytime or anywhere. The difference between these and the bumper pack are that they will only be available one or maybe 2 at a time, for a limited period, once a new one is ready, the old one will be removed and you will have missed your chance to grab it! The group gifts will come as often as she can make them.
– There are only 500 spaces in this group. She made the decision to keep the group small to make it all the more exclusive for the members. Want something by .::Pink Sugah::. that you won’t see all over the grid? Now is your chance, every Platinum gift will only be owned by you and (at most) 499 other customers.

There are also a few rules to follow that are below.
1. Please be very careful not to accidentally leave the group. She is aware the joining fee is fairly high, but she has no way of recalling past lists of members, so she will not be re adding people who leave the group. As the group is limited in numbers, please be doubly careful that you don’t lose your place.
2. Group chat will be open, be nice in it. Anyone unpleasant, mean or rude in chat will be removed from the group without refund.
3. Applier updates – She will be offering free applier updates with Platinum Group gifts just like she does with purchases. If there are any appliers you would like, please contact her and she will get them to you as soon as she can.

Dress: .::Pink Sugah::. “Bella” (Platinum VIP Starter gift) {NEW!}

Hair: Truth Hair “Grande” {NEW!}



*Wild at heart*




Hey everyone! Im on a roll with the blog posts this month. Phew! Im pretty proud of myself to be honest. I had been slacking some kind of hardcore lol. I have been looking for something to pair this top up with for awhile and tonight I came across this very boho chic skirt from the HeatWave Gatcha Event. I love how the skirt looks like its been torn a little on the bottom with little fringes in different places. So cute! I thought this top from Cynful went perfect with it too. Gosh.. how comfy does this skirt look though?! I wish I had one like it in real life tbh lol. You still have a little more time to visit the HeatWave event if you havent yet. So please get to scootin and head on over there before all these goodies are gone. All Gatcha machines are 100L or less a play. Hope everyone is having a wonderful hump day ♥


Top: [Cynful] Clothing & Co. “Baubie Hugger” (Black Lace)
Skirt: *CD* “Shabby Boho Skirt” (Violet RARE) {NEW!} @ HeatWave Gatcha
Shoes: *REIGN. “Wedge Flip Flops” (Black)
Hair: little bones. “Pavillion”
Nails: C H A R Y “Glossy Nails” (for Slink Hands)
Necklace: Cae “Bolt” {NEW!} @ Collabor88
Rings: [7891.] “Poly Rings” (Silver) -found on MP-



Im taking a different approach with my blog post this time. Ive written some things below but Ive also recorded them in my own voice so you can hit [play] and listen along as you read it with me. It different and I kinda hope everyone likes it. :)






adjective: charming

pleasant or attractive.

“a charming country cottage”

synonyms:  delightful, pleasing, pleasant, agreeable, likable, endearing, lovely, lovable, adorable, appealing, attractive, good-looking, prepossessing; More

antonyms:   repulsive

(of a person or manner) polite, friendly, and likable.

“he was a charming, affectionate colleague”

Hello Everyone

Why charming.. Why did I name this blog post Charming? Why did I find the real definition of Charming to start this blog post off? Well.. that’s because I think charming can be way more than just whats said above.. and Ill tell you why.

Of everything that goes on in my life from my anxiety to my spazz moments, to just dealing with everyday life why charming? Why did I pick that word to talk to you about today? Why do I insist on wearing cute dresses? Why do I insist on keeping my blog going? Why do I insist on signing into Second Life just to play dress up for a couple hours, get lost in the moment, snap a couple pictures and upload them to a blog for everyone to see? Why do I continue to do these things almost two years after starting it? Most people would have gotten bored with it when they don’t see they have a ton of views, or maybe sometimes they become overwhelmed with everything and give up.

There are so many things that aren’t good in this world. That aren’t good in my life and I try, I try as hard as I can to be positive about everything. But sometimes its the little things.. and that’s what charming is to me. Its those little things that makes life just a little bit better. Its making my avatar look pretty when I’m having a horrible day, just because. Its visiting that random sim and walking through exploring all the little details someone took the time to make, just because. This is my charming Second Life and if I can do something small to make myself happy then I’m going to do it. There’s no real point to wallow in whatever it is I’m going through or what the world is going through. I cant change the world, I cant change people, but I can change how I react to things. And that’s why I have this blog, that is why I do what I do. Its not to present some facade of a beautiful Second and real life, because what you cant see behind the other side of these pictures is me interacting with my real life, my dirty car that needs washed, my pile of makeup that I need to rearrange, my dirty clothes I need to wash, my amazing collection of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia, my countless bottles of medicine I need to help my body keep functioning recently. You also dont see how much of my Second Life is a mess with countless boxes everywhere scattered throughout the place or how I have a cute little house set up which I change on a normal basis because im a hoarder of SL houses. What you do see though is from time to time me looking very well put together and lady like (sometimes not so lady like) on my blog post because those things make me feel good. Sharing what I find beautiful in Second Life and hoping you see some beauty in it too. Thats something thats important to me. Blogging isnt a job to me like it is to a lot of people. I blog because thats something I love. I started before the big ‘blogging craze’ started and I didnt start for free clothing. In the beginning I worked my ass off at clubs making tips so I could pay for nice things to blog for everyone. I finally got enough views and applied for enough feeds that someone took a chance on me to blog their clothing. I think that when you struggle, and it doesn’t matter real life or second life.. be it anxiety, depression, loneliness, or any other type of illness.. you need to find those things that bring even just the smallest amount of happiness to your life. Thats why in real life I never leave the house without my makeup, and I do all these blogs in second life because those things make me happy, those things make me feel good. You dont see me in real life wearing my sweats and hair in a messy bun most of the time.. so when I get a chance to play dress up in second life and wear a cute dress and heels.. Im going to take it. Theres so much that goes on in peoples worlds behind the scenes and thats just how it is for everybody. To me.. charming isnt perfection. Its absolutely not perfect in any sense of the word. Its the little things that I do to make myself happy.. to make others happy.. to make the world maybe just a little bit more beautiful. The world is a big scary place and to a lot of people this may just seem petty, but I cant change the world I can just change myself. So to me.. thats what charming is. Its dressing up in Second Life to explore alone, its those countless hours playing Cards against Humanity or Greedy with the ones you care about the most, its getting dressed up to have fun with friends, its taking those numerous amount of photos trying to find the right angle and wind light,  its that lipstick I bought in RL that was way too expensive but makes me feel beautiful when I have it on. Its that child I give extra suckers to at work and they smile back at me so excited, its helping one another, its being a good friend.. and doing a little impulse shopping in RL and SL once in awhile. And Im not going to be ashamed of it and Im not going to be sorry for anything that I do, but all I can say is charming is whatever you need to do in your life to make you feel good, to make your world a little bit more beautiful.. to make you feel happy. My life for sure is FAR from perfect, but.. at least.. at least Im trying. :)


*Get the Look*

Outfit: Devilish Designs “Shy One” (Pink Flowers) {NEW} @ HeatWave Gatcha 
Hair: [Mag] “Rough”